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Table 17-1

Characteristics of Victims

Type of VictimCharacteristics
Child
  • Incest generally begins after 9 years of age
  • Self-blame for family conflict
  • Low self-esteem
  • Fear of parent or caretaker
  • Cheating, lying, low achievement in school
  • Signs of depression, helplessness
  • One child sometimes singled out in family due to being labeled as “difficult,” product of unwanted pregnancy, reminds the parents of someone they dislike or even themselves, prematurity (inhibited parent-child bonding)
Spouse/Domestic partner
  • Low self-esteem
  • Self-blame for batterer’s actions
  • Sense of helplessness to escape abuse
  • Isolation from family and friends
  • Views self as subservient to partner
  • Economic dependence on abuser
Elder
  • Older than 75 years of age
  • Mentally or physically impaired
  • Isolated from others
  • Female