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Table 10-8

Problem ClassificationCharacteristics
1. Somatic distress
  • Occurs in waves lasting from 20 min to 1 hr
  • Deep, sighing respirations most common when discussing grief
  • Lack of strength
  • Loss of appetite and sense of taste
  • Tightness in throat
  • Choking sensation accompanied by shortness of breath
2. Preoccupation with image of deceased
  • Similar to daydreaming
  • May mistake others for deceased person
  • May be oblivious to surroundings
  • Slight sense of unreality
  • Fear that he or she is becoming “insane”
3. Feelings of guilt
  • Accuses self of negligence
  • Exaggerates existence and importance of negative thoughts, feelings, and actions toward deceased
  • Views self as having failed deceased—“if I had only . . .”
4. Feelings of hostility
  • Irritability, anger, and loss of warmth toward others
  • May attempt to handle feelings of hostility in formalized and stiff manner of social interaction
5. Loss of patterns of conduct
  • Inability to initiate or maintain organized patterns of activity
  • Restlessness, with aimless movements
  • Loss of zest—tasks and activities are carried on as though with great effort
  • Activities formerly carried on in company of deceased have lost their significance
  • May become strongly dependent on whomever stimulates him or her to activity