Learning Objectives
Glossary
Abuse Willful infliction of physical injury or mental anguish or the deprivation by the caregiver of essential services.
Domestic (intimate partner, spouse abuse) violence Intentionally inflicting or threatening physical injury or cruelty to one's partner.
Economic abuse (fiduciary) Using another's resources for one's own personal gain without permission or making the victim financially dependent on the abuser.
Family violence At least one family member is using physical or sexual force against another that leads to physical or emotional injury.
Incest Any type of exploitive sexual experience between relatives or surrogate relatives before a victim reaches 18 years of age.
Neglect Deliberate deprivation of necessary and available resources, such as medical or dental care.
Physical abuse Deliberate violent actions that inflict pain or nonaccidental injury.
Psychological (emotional) abuse Deliberate and willful destruction or significant impairment of a person's sense of competence by battering the victim's self-esteem and inhibiting normal psychosocial development.
Sexual abuse Using the victim for sexual gratification when the victim is unable to resist or consent. This includes rape and developmentally inappropriate sexual contact, incest, and using a child for prostitution or pornography.
Shaken-baby syndrome When an infant is violently shaken by the extremities or shoulders, usually out of frustration and rage over the child's incessant crying.
Family violence may be America's number one public health issue, yet many nurses caring for victims of this type of violence are often unaware that it is occurring within the families of their patients. Child abuse, domestic violence (also called intimate partner abuse), and elder abuse can lead to life-long emotional and physical problems for the victims and tears away at the very fabric of society as a whole. Carson & Smith-DiJulio (2006) note that 50% of all Americans have experienced violence in their family. It occurs in all segments of society. Family violence is often part of the history of violent criminals and runaways.
Victims are often too fearful or ashamed to report abuse, become adept at hiding the signs, or use massive denial to convince themselves that the abuse is not that bad, so that a violent family situation often goes unnoticed by outsiders. Health-care professionals must be vigilant to recognize the overt and covert signs of abuse. Every state mandates that suspected child abuse be reported, and some states are enacting similar laws for domestic violence and elder abuse. The Joint Commission on Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations (JCAHO) now also requires that standards for identifying and providing services to victims of child abuse, domestic violence, and elder abuse be in place (2001). Nurses in all settings must be alert to signs of abuse. Home health nurses in particular are in a key role to identify abuse within a patient's family.
Child abuse includes physical and emotional abuse, neglect, and sexual abuse, and occurs at all socioeconomic levels. Although statistics are difficult to attain, it is estimated that at least 1 million American children are victims of abuse and neglect each year (2006 Center for Disease Control and Prevention). The youngest children (less than 4 years of age) are the most vulnerable and the most likely to die from abuse or neglect. Reported cases of child abuse have steadily increased over the last few years, but many cases are not reported. Children are a most vulnerable segment of the population because they depend on others for all their needs. Parents are the most common abusers. Shaken baby syndrome is a form of child abuse that contributes to infant deaths each year (Center for Disease Control and Prevention, 2006).
Many states have passed laws for safe surrender sites of newborns if a mother is unable to keep her child. Rather than abandoning an infant, mothers can leave the infant at community locations that often include hospitals and fire stations. Many at-risk teenagers who might be pregnant are often not aware of this law, so community education that reaches teens in their communities must be provided to prevent abandonment and often death of these infants.
Victims of child abuse are at an increased risk of becoming abusers as adults. Even though the child may hate the abusive situation, he or she never gets an opportunity to observe healthy parenting or to learn adaptive coping mechanisms to deal with frustration without violence. Other long-term effects include low self-esteem, high risk for substance abuse, tendency toward depression, difficulty trusting in close relationships, and violent lifestyle including crime. An early sign of child abuse in the victim can be abuse of family pets by the child. Children may try to deal with the situation by controlling another being or seeking an outlet for their anger through a more vulnerable victim. Incarcerated youths are frequently victims of child abuse and neglect (National Council on Child Abuse and Family Violence, 2004).
Girls are the most frequent victims of sexual abuse. Eighty percent of sexually abused children know their abuser, and about 50% of cases involve a parent or caregiver (Mulryan, Cathers, & Fagin, 2000). Long-term effects of sexual abuse include fear of intimacy, sexual problems, eating disorders, and an overwhelming sense of powerlessness. Victims may block out the memory of these incidents until later in life, when a major event or trauma triggers memory recall. Exploiting children in pornography has been increasing with access to the Internet.
Domestic violence most often refers to men abusing their female partners. However, women abusing their male partners or abuse within homosexual couples does occur. This is an enormous societal problem. Like child abuse, domestic violence is found at all socioeconomic levels. It accounts for 22% to 35% of emergency department visits for women (Shea, Mahoney, & Lacey, 1997). Victims of abuse may endure physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. The abuse may increase when the woman becomes pregnant if the abuser perceives competition from the baby. The battered woman syndrome refers to the common personality characteristics of these victims. These women are often economically dependent on their spouse or partner, exhibit very low self-esteem, and believe that they somehow deserve the abuse. Pediatricians may be the first to identify this victim because the woman often will not seek medical attention for herself but will seek it for her children. In addition, many times when there is domestic violence in the home, the children are victims of abuse or neglect. The National Council on Child Abuse and Family Violence in 2006 reports that women are more likely than men to be killed by someone they know and one third of female homicide victims are killed by their intimate partner (as compared with only 4% of men). The victim of the abuse may also be the killer in retaliation for past abuse.
One of the most frequently misunderstood factors in domestic violence is why these women remain with the abusers. It is important to understand that they often feel trapped and have little money, resources, or support, and fear being killed or losing custody of or potential injury to their children. Permeating all these factors is the overwhelming sense of powerlessness.
Elder abuse includes neglect as well as physical, sexual, and emotional abuse. Exploitation of the person's financial reserves by family, hired help, or strangers is also considered abuse. This can occur in the home or in residential facilities. Gray-Vickrey (2000) notes that elder abuse affects 10% of the geriatric population. This problem is greatly underreported and will continue to increase as the population grows older. One problem in reporting it is the inconsistency of laws defining elder abuse. Some states do not include neglect or psychological abuse in their definition, so it is essential to be aware of how elder abuse is defined in the state where you are working or reside. Because the abuser is often the victim's caregiver, even including the elderly spouse, victims rarely report the abuse. They fear reprisals or abandonment because they are dependent on the caregiver. Society's lack of interest in elderly people may add to the underreporting. Caring for a loved one with a cognitive impairment increases a caregiver's risk for engaging in abusive behaviors (VandeWeerd, Paveza, & Fulmer, 2005). Elder abuse can also be difficult to detect by professionals because common signs such as bruising and skin tears may be common in older populations. The patient with dementia is particularly vulnerable because he or she is unable to speak up or will not be believed because of his or her intermittent confusion.
There are similarities in all types of family violence (Table 17-1 Characteristics of Victims). A family history of abuse remains a common thread, particularly in child abuse and domestic violence. Childhood exposure to abuse increases a general sense of low self-esteem and reduced ability to deal with frustration, as well as lack of role models to learn to interact in a healthy relationship. Another similarity is the presence of a vulnerable victim.
Various theories examine what causes a person to abuse another.
Psychological theory suggests that abuse provides the abuser with a sense of power and prestige that boosts his or her self-image. The abuser hates the vulnerable powerless feelings within himself or herself and is able to block them out by creating (transferring) these denigrated feelings in others.
Sociocultural views examine the role of violence in our society. With easy access to weapons and the frequent exposure to violence from the media, potential abusers can identify violence as a socially acceptable coping mechanism. Another contributing factor is that abusers are often isolated with limited resources for assistance. Alcohol and substance abuse by the abuser also contributes by lowering impulses and inhibitions and reducing sensitivity to the impact of their behavior.
Additional traits that contribute to child abuse include a parent who sees himself or herself in the child, the child not meeting parent's expectations, and the parent's viewing the child as being there to satisfy the parent's needs. At times, a parent has no tolerance for normal child behaviors, such as crying, because of the past experience of being unable to express these needs in childhood. So the child's normal behavior reminds the parent of his or her own unmet childhood needs and unresolved anger toward his or her own parents. There is also a very high correlation with drug and alcohol abuse in this parent. The other parent is usually aware of the abuse but remains unable or unwilling to intervene. That parent may unconsciously deny the existence of abuse and is often a victim of spousal abuse. Stepparents may also be abusers as hostility toward the new mate or previous spouse is projected on the child. Incest in the family may be related to sexual problems between husband and wife. Long-term effects for child abuse victims include low self-esteem, difficulty trusting others, anxiety, anger, phobias, depression, and eating disorders.
Domestic violence tends to escalate when the abuser is intoxicated. He or she often displays tremendous jealousy and fears losing the partner. At the same time, the abuser may blame the partner for his or her own problems. Inflicting injury on the woman gives the male abuser a temporary sense of power and esteem. Other factors contributing to domestic violence include the victim's lack of financial support, belief that the children need both parents, and lack of a social support system.
As noted earlier, elder abusers are often caregivers. These abusers often have limited coping mechanisms and limited support, and are emotionally and financially dependent on the elderly person. Most often, they live with the elderly victim. At times, family members can become abusers as resentment toward the elder's dependency increases, or as retribution for the elder's perceived earlier failures as a parent.
Walker (1979) identified the cycle theory of family violence. This theory includes the following stages:
Related Clinical Concerns
Neurological impairment and substance abuse can trigger the abuse cycle by disinhibiting impulse control in the abuser. Illness may be a risk factor to becoming a victim. Resentments may build from caregiving responsibilities when the potential victim is dependent on the potential abuser. In addition, more violence may be inflicted on the developmentally challenged child.
Early dementia may go undiagnosed by the primary care provider unless adequate screening is done, along with communication from family who may be seeing the early signs (Cotter, 2005).
Possible Nurses' Reactions
Assessment of Child Abuse (See Box 17-1 General Warning Signs of Abuse for General Warning Signs of Abuse)
Assessment of Domestic Violence
Victim
Abuser
Assessment of Elder Abuse
Victim
Abuser
Individual and group psychotherapy are often used to treat both victims and abusers. For the victim, individual therapy may focus on the damage done to self-esteem and facing and resolving intense emotions toward the abuser, as well as toward others who may have tolerated the abuse (often the other parent in child abuse). The victim should be removed from living with the abuser before entering treatment to reduce the fear of retaliation. In domestic violence, therapists often recommend that the couple separate for a period of time before starting treatment.
Children who are suspected victims of sexual abuse need to be evaluated by therapy professionals in this specialty. Repressed, traumatic events of the past, such as childhood sexual abuse, may also be uncovered during therapy as an adult. This repressed abuse could be influencing the patient's current life without his or her knowledge. However, this is very controversial because repressed memories have been found to be inaccurate. Group therapy may also allow the victim to learn from other victims and develop assertive skills.
More intensive psychotherapy or psychiatric treatment may be required for the abuser if psychopathology is suspected.
Because family violence is a symptom of family dysfunction, family therapy is often part of the overall treatment plan. When children are in the home where abuse has occurred, they must be part of the healing process. In addition, support group programs are available for both victims and abusers.
Family Coping: Disabling evidenced by child abuse
FAMILY COPING: DISABLING evidenced by child abuse related to history of abuse in the family, lack of resources, isolation.
Child Outcomes
Parent Outcomes
Interventions
Family Coping: Disabling evidenced by domestic violence
FAMILY COPING: DISABLING evidenced by domestic violence related to vulnerable victim, abuser with family history of abuse, isolated, limited resources, and/or intense jealousy.
Victim Outcomes
Abuser Outcomes
Interventions
Family Coping: Disabling evidenced by elder abuse
FAMILY COPING: DISABLING evidenced by elder abuse related to multiple stressors associated with elder care.
Elder Outcomes
Caregiver Outcomes
Interventions
Patient & Family Education
Who to Call for Help
Community-Based Care